Gift Box by Ken’s Oven, on Flickr
Should I get my host family a gift? This question pops into the minds of many study abroad students when they realize they will be staying with a local family while abroad. The answer is usually yes, you should get a gift. Gifts are the perfect way to start a conversation with your host family and show how appreciative you are of their hospitality. Generally gifts are representative of your home country or state and are given within the first few days of your arrival.
The next question is, what should I get my host family? Gift giving is a skill that some people are born with and others are doomed to struggle with their whole lives. Whichever category you fall under, here are a few things to keep in mind when picking out the perfect gift for your host family.
Be Unique
Many host families have been housing international students for years. When it comes to gifts, it’s safe to say that they’ve seen it all. The first gift idea you think of is likely something your family has received in the past. Rather than giving your family the task of finding room in their cupboards for another mug, try to think outside of the box. Is there something unique that your state or city is known for producing? Maybe you could create a photo collage of your favorite places back home. Don’t be afraid to get creative!
Think About Collections
Creativity is not for everyone. If you are having a brain meltdown from trying to be unique, think of a gift that could be added to a collection. That way if others have given your host family a similar gift it won’t matter; you’re just adding to the collection! A magnet, a book about your state or city, a collectable spoon–if you can collect it, you can give it.
Talk with Housemates
If you know other international students will be living with you and your host family, contact them. Ask what type of gift they are planning on giving and how much they’re planning to spend. That way, you can coordinate on the types of gifts you will each be bringing. If you and your housemates are from the same area or attend the same university, you could pitch in together and purchase one really nice gift for your host family.
Give a Conversation-starter
The gift that you give shouldn’t just be representative of where your from; it should be something that acts like an ice-breaker between you and your host family. Look for a gift you can use to start a conversation about who you are or where you’re from. Prepare something to say that will explain your present to your host family and link it to your hometown. Before arriving, practice saying a sentence or two about the gift in your host family’s native language. You’ll be sure to make a good impression by making the effort.
Keep Portability in Mind
Maybe you hail from the great state of Wisconsin and want to give your host family a delicious dairy product. Before picking out the perfect cheese, think about how far it will have to travel. When it comes to fresh produce or any form of beverage, ask yourself first if it will make it through airport and international security. Next ask if it will stay fresh during your journey. Finally, make sure it won’t take up too much room in your suitcase; luggage space is precious to study abroad students.
Think Family-Friendly
We trust that you won’t get anything inappropriate for your host family. But rather than guessing at what each member of the family might want, go for something that everyone can enjoy. A box of candy, a book or even a puzzle are all viable options. You could even get crafty and create something to be displayed in the house. Pinterest anyone? Packing some travel-friendly ingredients and cooking a meal for your host family is another way you could show your appreciation and share your culture.
Have you ever lived with a host family? What did you give to show your appreciation?